me and my boyfriend have been dating for four years, he lives two hours away in another town, I usually go see him every weekend, well this weekend I was off, I told him that I was coming down, and he told me that he is coming into my town to hang out with some old friends (he use to live here), yet he didn't want to hang out, he told me he needed some "alone time" and time with the guys, that I understood, but this is the before part, he always has something to hide, like his phone, we were watching a movie one night and he went to the bathroom like four times and shut the door, and needless to say there was never a flush, he always gets very angry when I mention all this to him and always says "why don't you see that I love you, god!, if you keep this up, I am not going to take it anymore", I don't know how to get to him, someone PLEASE tell me what the right thing to say to him to get an honest answer about all this, please, I am desprate at this point and before someone says it, the reason why he usually does not come down here every weekend is he has two jobs and its easier for me to go down there, he does though from time to time come see me in our hometown.