So me and my girl friend and now fiance split up about a wk and a half ago and i have been pleading with her that things have changed and what happen wont happen again. basically i let weed and alcohol take over my life and i was not showing her the right affection i should have been. Now we are talking again and she is bringing the kids over but she says she needs time. I told her if she does not think we can work anymore to tell me and she said i will tell you?... I have got back in church and stopped all my habits and do not plan to go back. I proposed to her like 5 days ago and she said a definite maybe, obviously because we are not together right now. I just need some advice right now because i love her and dont want her to grow apart from me. any strong advice is wanted please!