I have met the man that I love, the man that I want to marry, yet if I marry him my parents will no longer help financially (they would otherwise). I hate the idea of living off my parents, always have, but at the moment I find myself in difficulty with no way of working it out myself. Part of me thinks I have found love, that is so incredibly special that I should hold onto that, and so what if I don't live the life I brought up in. Part of me goes thinks that I should give up on my love, because that is what everyone is telling me to do, he isn't the one etc. So now I am confused. Should I just be thankful for meeting the man for me? And chose love? Or should I give into financial and parental pressure? Looking for advice from wiser people :) Thank you.